Monday, March 3, 2014

Lobsters, Butterflies, and Cake

Here is a brief overview of our Sunday service from March 2, 2014. To see the full text of the talk, click here.


  • ·        What do lobsters, butterflies, and cake have in common?

  • ·        Each of these provides a metaphor for life.

  • ·        A full grown man can step on a lobster in the water and the lobster’s shell will protect it.

  • ·        A lobster shell is restrictive and stunts further growth. In order for a lobster to grow it must shed its protective shell, thus becoming vulnerable.

  • ·        In order for us to grow spiritually we, too, need to shed our restrictive shell of protection and allow ourselves to be vulnerable.

  • ·        As we grow spiritually we are “protected” from the previous discomfort of the vulnerabilities we have allowed to be exposed to the healing love of spirit.

  • ·        A caterpillar crawling across a Persian rug may encounter constantly changing, and seemingly random, colors.

  • ·        Our lives may seem to be a mish-mash of constantly changing and confusing events and emotions.

  • ·        When the caterpillar becomes a butterfly and is able to fly above that Persian rug, it will see a pattern where once there was the experience of randomness.

  • ·        When we view our lives from a higher spiritual perspective; a perspective higher than a judgmental and critical mind we see the unfolded pattern of our life. From that higher perspective we see that everything is exactly as it should be.

  • ·        The patterns of our life are defined by what we might call “The Law of Life.” The Law of Life is: The creative spirit of God working through (+) our consciousness creates (=) the patterns (or experience) of our life.

  • ·        Asked to take a bite of flour, you’d probably decline.  Baking soda? Likely the same response.  A spoonful of cooking oil? Yuck! Maybe a little sugar, a tad of vanilla, a bit of chocolate. OK, that sounds better, but each of them by themselves?

  • ·        Taken one by one, the ingredients are less than appealing. Mix them together though, and bake them, and they turn into a delicious cake.

  • ·        Looking upon the individual events of our lives we’ll find the sweet and the yucky. Seen together throughout a life time yields a rich and lovey life.

  • ·        In order to see our lives as rich and lovely we must see our personal individual ingredients in a new way.

  • ·        Typically we would see our experiences as examples of love or fear. Fear, we know, keeps us established in challenging patterns.

  • ·        There is a loving way to interpret fear.

  • ·        Fear is actually a call for love. When we are afraid to be vulnerable and allow love in or out, we express fear. Fears seems to be a protective shell, and yet all that shell does (like the lobster) is stunt our growth.

  • ·        Love heals and harmonizes.

  • ·        If someone extends love to you, return it. If someone calls for love from you, extend it.

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