Monday, July 23, 2012

Aurora Movie Shootings - A Conversation

Yesterday, Sunday, July 22nd, I didn't deliver a prepared service.  Instead I asked the congregation if the needed to process their feelings around the armed assault at the Century 16 Theater in Aurora, Colorado.

Here are a few points from our conversation, in no order or particular context:
  • Pray for the deceased and for the injured
  • Pray also for the perpetrator… "wouldn’t his mother like us to pray for him, too?"
  • See beyond the actions and look for something spiritual (this doesn’t absolve him from the worldly/judicial consequences of his actions)
  • Identify him as spirit, not as his actions (not: he’s an idiot, jerk, evil, etc., but: he is a child of God, unaware of his divinity and acting-out like an idiot, jerk, in an evil way, etc.)
  • Our spiritual identity is always there.  We may cover it up, reject it, and deny it, but it’s always there
  • Attempt to see those who died (and those who were injured) as being spiritually alive
  • Feel your feelings
  • Practice forgiveness
  • Reach out others (the lonely, struggling, depressed, disenfranchised, etc. )
  • Remember John 13:34, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."

Bless everything,
Rev. Brad

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Your Path...


Which way is the right way?
All of humanity is seeking the peace of God.  Everyone might not say it that way but I believe it to be true.  Every one of us does what we do in order to maintain, attract, or establish unwavering inner peace.
The world has numerous religions, and sects within each of those religions.  Which is the ‘right religion’, the ‘right sect’, or the ‘right way’ to the awareness of our connection to perennial joy?  I don’t have an answer for you because I am not the last word for you on your life, you are.  Equally true then is the realization that you are not the last word for another on their life, they are.
Each of us chooses our own path, our own way; some under the umbrella of an organized teaching, some with a personally developed spirituality all their own, and others with a strictly worldly perspective.
I believe that God loves all ‘His’ children equally and is simply ‘happy’ that we come home.  This point is made clearly in the story of “The Prodigal Son.”  The father cared neither where his son had been, nor what he had been doing; he was just happy he returned home.
Return ‘home’ via the path that calls out to you most deeply.  Begrudge no one the path they choose to travel even if they criticize yours; and if you feel attacked for your beliefs keep in mind (for yourself) Jesus’ counsel in John 15:12, “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.”

Traveling with you on the path,

Rev. Brad

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To read the complete text of "Your Path..." from Sunday, July 15,  click here.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Overcoming a Lack of Love

For those who were at service on Sunday, a few bullet points to jog your memory:

  • "Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewal of your mind." Romans 12:2
  • Renewing your mind switches you from worldly vision and identification to spiritual vision and identification
  • Kare Castle tells of being a young single mother and how she thought being married would erase her shame
  • Once married, her husband became her perceived redeemer and she was unwilling to let go of that
  • Kare's husband had a serious addiction problem
  • After years and years of broken promises about getting well, and Kare's denial that her husband was seriously addicted, she started attending church to find spiritual peace
  • Kare began a intentional, regular, spiritual practice
  • Her church offered a class bases on Maria Nemeth's book, The Energy of Money
  • The underlying philosophy of that book is, the way we handle money is the way we handle life.
  • Kare recognized, "I have handled money completely unconsciously and that is exactly how I have been living my life - unconsciously." 
  • In a moment of complete surrender she said a prayer that changed her life; "Dear God, please wake me up."
  • The next morning she found her husband lying in a pool of his own excrement, unconscious from a drug overdose
  • Three days later as she was at the hospital listening to her husband's apologies and confession of his horrifying behavior related to sex addition, the Voice for God beame progressively louder, overpowering all other sounds in the room
  • The Voice said to her, "All is well. Your peace and safety lie in your relationship with me."
  • Kare said she believed the Holy Spirit spoke through her when she responded to her husband, saying, "You have done some terrible things, but I know the truth of who you are. You are a child of God and for that reason I forgive you."
  • In that moment of intense clarity for Kare, she made the choice for the experience and the expression of love through forgiveness
  • When you surender, when you step back and let God lead the way you will become a happier, more peaceful, incredible you!
  • Let love radiate into all the opportunities that come to you from both your inside world and what we think of as the outside world.
  • What better life than one that is filled with God's Love?
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To read the complete text of "Overcoming a Lack of Love" from Sunday, July 8th, click here.

Monday, July 2, 2012

Either Way...

For those who were at service on Sunday, a few bullet points to jog your memory:


  • Philippians 4:8 “Finally, beloved, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”
  • Proverbs 3:1-5 “My child, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments; for length of days and years of life and abundant welfare they will give you. Do not let loyalty and faithfulness forsake (abandon, desert, leave) you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart…  Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight.”
  • The tapestry of our life is woven by every decision we make
  • The experience borne out of our decisions is affected by our attitude
  • "We have a stolen car and we can be upset about it, or, we have a stolen car and we can be OK about it.  Either way, we have a stolen car and I choose to be OK about it"
  • “A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.” (Hugh Downs)
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For those who would like to read the entire text:



"I’d like to offer you two pieces of Scripture:

Philippians 4:8 “Finally, beloved, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”

Proverbs 3:1-5 “My child, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments; for length of days and years of life and abundant welfare they will give you. Do not let loyalty and faithfulness forsake (abandon, desert, leave) you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart…  Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight.”

There is a thought-provoking scene in Lewis Carroll’s classic children’s tale, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland. Young Alice comes to a fork in the road and asks the Cheshire Cat which direction she should take. “‘That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,’ said the Cat.

"I don’t much care where –" said Alice.

“Then it doesn’t matter which way you walk," said the Cat.”

Life is filled with decisions, many of which never even reach our conscious level. In which cup from the cupboard will I have my coffee or tea? Should I tuck my t-shirt in or leave it out? Which side of the couch should I plop down on when I’m going to watch TV? Most of these decisions are made out of habit.

On the other hand, there are some decisions that you spend time thinking about. What sounds good for lunch? Which voicemail needs to be answered first? Can the haircut wait until next week? These decisions may seem small and insignificant, but woven together, they form the tapestry of our daily lives.

Then there are life-altering decisions with which we may well struggle: Which career path is most in line with my unique skill-set and calling? Should I marry or remain single? Which church will allow me the best opportunity to grow and minister to others? These are often hard choices that deserve a great amount of thought.

Regardless of which of these "decision sets" you are in… there is yet another decision to make… a decision that surrounds and clothes all others; you have to decide what your attitude will be about what’s going on in your life.

Here’s a story, Attitude – One of Life’s Choices, from A Second Helping of Chicken Soup for the Soul, (P/185-187) story by Bob Harris.
  • (synopsis for readers of this blog- Bob and his wife Tere return home to California from a trip (in their brand new car) to visit family in Houston, Texas. They are so tired from driving straight through that they don’t unpack their car when they return home.  In the morning they awaken to find their new car and its contents have been stolen.  Not only have they lost their car but all their luggage, clothing, cameras, wedding album, family heirlooms they brought home with them, Bob’s wallet, and both their checkbooks.

    Their car is found five days later.  In the interim, though, Tere becomes more and more distressed while Bob remains calm.  Tere asks Bob why he is not upset.  Bob replies, “We have a stolen car and we can be upset or we have a stolen car and we can be happy.  Either way, we have a stolen car and I choose to be happy.”

    There is more to the story and an amusing twist at the end but Bob’s reply is the point of telling the story)

Last week I suggested that all we need is one move and to use that move in the face of trials, tribulations, troubles and tests.

You know that I often have the opportunity to apply the teachings we share (aka – practice what I preach) in the week following any given lesson.  This past week has been a great opportunity... or, actually, plural. There have been a number of opportunities to practice principle and to choose my attitude.
  • Wednesday: Accident in new truck
I have a dented up new truck and I could be upset, or I have a dented up my new truck and I can be happy.  Either way… I have a dented up new truck and my attitude is a matter of choice.

  • Thursday: ran over and killed a cat
I ran over someone’s pet and I could be all upset, or I have a run over someone’s pet and I can be OK with it (accepting it and not spiraling down deeply into pain and suffering).  Either way… the cat is dead… and my attitude is a matter of choice. (I can extend love to the deceased cat and its owners and still feel the sting of running over the cat, but I choose not to let it push me into a funk)

It’s so important to be in the best attitude possible when we make decisions.  Our attitude affects our decisions (not the reverse).  Our attitude affects our:
  • health
  • happiness
  • whether we feel like a victim or see an opportunity for spiritual expression/growth
  • view of the world
  • perspective on whether or not we can handle such and such (or not)
  • how we feel about ourselves (see our value)
  • whether we project, bury, or offer our feelings for transformation

“Let your heart keep my commandments; for length of days and years of life and abundant welfare they will give you.”

Lastly, if the bible writer of Proverbs isn’t compelling enough, then let’s go to Hugh Downs (TV newsman, host of the Today show and the game show, Concentration) for our final word this morning, “A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.”"

Bless everything,
Rev. Brad

Monday, June 25, 2012

"Your One Move"

(complete text today, not a recap)
"I thought I’d bring my tool box in today.  It’s filled with wrenches... box and open end.; sockets and drivers; monkey wrench; screwdrivers, multi-meter, etc.
It weighs 46 lbs (now I know why these are called wrenches… carry this long enough and you’ll wrench your back!)
That’s a lot of stuff to lug around for mechanical emergencies.
To be able to present a lesson each week a minister has to always be on the lookout for ways to make a point.  We use a number of resources: our own lives, we share with and get help from other ministers; there is the news, observation of life going on around us and of course, from our reading.
This is a story that came to me two weeks ago.  It was told to me by Jim Lee.  Jim is a Unity minister in Detroit and he said he read this story and that is purported to be true.  Thank you, Jim, for your inspiration
It’s the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.
The boy began lessons with an old Japanese judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn't understand why, after three months of training the master had taught him only one move.
"Sensei," the boy finally said, "Shouldn't I be learning more moves?"
"This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you'll ever need to know," the sensei replied.
Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training.
Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.
This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the sensei intervened.
"No," the sensei insisted, "Let him continue."
Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion.
On the way home, the boy and sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind.
"Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?"
"You won for two reasons," the sensei answered. "First, you've almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm."
            Our lives can be challenging.  We can feel held back; defeated, like we can’t compete… we have trouble, trials, tribulations and tests.
            When it comes to the little things we depend on ourselves and we say, “I’ve got it… no problem… I’ve got it.”
            Have you ever experienced the grace of God?  That time when things miraculously went your way?  That’s God saying, “I’ve got it.”
            Y’know what?  God has it all the time. 
            Heb 13:5 “I will not forsake you or leave you”
            1 Cor 10:13 "There has no temptation come your way that is not common to all mankind, but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond your strength, but will, when you are tempted, also make a way to escape, that you may be able to bear it."
It’s never a matter of, “I’ve got it” on our end.  God has it, and we experience it… when we go to God to be our partner in life… and we do that with our one move.
            Mine is forgiveness.
            Forgiveness offers me all I want:
·         Peace
·         Happiness
Forgiveness offers me that.
I also want a surety that I can get though each day and forgiveness offers me that.
Forgiveness is my one move and I use it all the time.  When I use forgiveness it seems as though things go my way, but I don’t use forgiveness to get a result (tho’ I’ve tried) because that doesn’t work.
I used to notice how things worked out on a physical level but now I see how forgiveness really work on an inner level and I experience peace… and thus it appears as though what has manifest in my world is a result of forgiveness, but what has really happened is I am at peace and when I am at peace what appears in my world is perceived as “good, right, perfect.”
When we are at peace, all is right with our relationship with the world.
Forgiveness is how I put my faith in God.  Once you put your faith in God you are able to lift yourself out of a historical lie of the past, and present yourself to a new way of being.
The only thing you need is one move, and that one move will take you to God.  One move… not a heavy tool box full of this or that… but one move.
Yes, there are trials and tribulations: lost jobs, lost relationships, lost homes, and lost loved ones.
In all of this, God will not forsake you… something magnificent is open and available to you all the time!  And all we have to do is make that one move to God and God will open magnificence to us that we never new existed before.
Our life is not occurring someplace outside ourselves, our life is occurring in God and when Troubles, trial, and tribulation appear… go to God with your one move.  God’s got this… God’s got this… G o d’ s    g o t    t h i s."

Bless everything,
Rev. Brad

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Hello and welcome to The Monday Message blog.

Who are you?  My name is Rev. Brad Langdon and I serve as the Senior Minister at Unity Church of Anderson.

What is "The Monday Message?"  The Monday Message is a recap of the message I offered the previous Sunday at the church.  We are located in Anderson, Indiana (www.UnityofAnderson.org)