Sunday, December 2, 2012

Stright Line Connection

For those who were at service on Sunday, December 2, 2012, a few bullet points to jog your memory:

  • As demonstrated by nature, transformation is a regular occurrence
  • Tadpoles transform into frogs
  • caterpillars transform into butterflies
  • What about us? Can we transform our belief in ourselves as primarily human to the awareness and experience of our identity as divine?
  • When the day comes that we realize, "There must be a better way," transformation begins
  • Our trip through transformation likely will include these moving through these ideas:  
  • (1) We say, “I’m not just a human being.  I’m a being with the Creators potential.”   
  • (2) Then the day comes when we think of ourselves as more than just a limited person with potential – we think of ourselves as a child of God, just as Jesus said we were.
  • One of the hardest tasks we'll face on our journey is the dissolution of our crippling negative self-talk
  • "Once you make a sincere effort to tackle your dysfunctional thinking you'll have fewer bouts of depression, anger, shame, etc." (A paraphrase of Dr. Don Colbert in his book, "Deadly Emotions: Understand the Mind-Body-Spirit Connection That Can Heal or Destroy You"
  • "Replacing lies with God's truth isn't hard. It just takes intentional and consistent effort" (ibid.)
  • If you are stuck in negative thinking, bathe yourself in truth; in thinking about God; in extending love to your circumstances, conditions and thoughts so that you may know the truth... that sets you free
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Monday, November 26, 2012

Gratitude

Hi.  No Monday Message today.  Yesterday the congregation shared the service expressing what they were thankful for.

I hope your Thanksgiving was enriching and that we all remember to be grateful everyday.

Bless everything,
Rev. Brad

Monday, November 19, 2012

"But-Head"

For those who were at service on Sunday, November 18, 2012, a few bullet points to jog your memory:

  • Please don’t take this the wrong way.  I have to ask, “How big is your “but?””

  • The “but” I’m talking about is your, “Yeah, I know, but…” followed by a reason why some good idea (aka application of spiritual principle) won’t work for them.  “But… thinking” is what keeps us stuck in our experience.

  • I hear, “yeah, but…” a lot as the reason why people aren’t willing to choose a different path of thinking that will lead them away from the experiences that come with their entrenched habits.

  • But thinking” is a choice that keeps us stuck.  Is being a “but-head” working for you? :o)

  • We are here to find freedom.    
    • Freedom is having a sense of complete well-being regardless of our circumstances or conditions 
  • We find freedom by choosing to live by proven spiritual principles, (aka a God-centered life, Christ consciousness) in any given moment. 

  • Spiritual freedom is a choice.

  • We want to push away our feelings – I hear this all the time – “I don’t want this, I’m tired of this, I want to get rid of this feeling.”  Then I might suggest a spiritual approach and that’s when it comes out, “Yeah, I know, but…” Have you ever heard yourself say this?

  • I once heard a man say, “The healing is in the feeling.”

  • I believe we have to feel our feelings in order to heal them.

  • What we resist persists… looms larger.

  • Feel your feelings and act from spirit no matter how loudly your feelings invite you not to.

  • Freedom is a choice.  Make a commitment to choose Spirit over fear.

  • A woman tells a story about the day her son came into her office to tell her he was going to make a parachute jump the next day, what he was going to do and how he was going to do it the next day when he made that jump.  She said she could also hear the fear in his voice.  “Yet,” she said, “it was about feeling the fear and doing it anyway.”

  • The next time the pressure is on and you want a change, don’t fall back into old patterns of pushing away the pressure…don’t be a “but-head…” feel the pressure and choose to express Spirit. :o)
 
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To read the complete text of "But-Head
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Sunday, November 11, 2012

Spiritual People

For those who were at service on Sunday, November 11, 2012, a few bullet points to jog your memory:

  • Who are you?
  • What is your profession?
  • I suggest the answer to both these questions is, "Spiritual person."
  • Spiritual person is our profession.  Anything else we do in the world is our avocation.
  • A spiritual person demonstrates the following three characteristics (among others):
  • "Risk Taker"
    • Step out and follow God, even when it's not in the normal flow of the people around you
  • "Visionary"
    • Lives for what is forthcoming.  Sees the good, the perfect pattern of God, and they are willing to do whatever needs to be done now to let that pattern emerge.
  • "Outrageous"
    • We have found our spirituality because we were looking for something that didn't fit the normal flow, something that we could use every day of our lives to live in an unusual, fulfilling, incredible space where we are aware of God's presence every moment in our lives. When we become willing to be outrageous enough to see God's design for our lives, we become willing to do what it will take to fulfill that design.
  •  Jesus demonstrated these characteristics
  • "Risk Taker"
    • He dared to challenge the scribes and the Pharisees 
  • "Visionary"
    • He looked around at a time when people had very little, when they were struggling to find their daily bread, and said to them, "The kingdom of heaven is within you, and it is God's good pleasure to give you the fullness of that kingdom."
  • "Outrageous"
    • He ate with publicans and sinners; forgave an adulteress; touched lepers; stood before the tomb of his friend Lazarus and said, "Come forth," knowing absolutely that his friend would arise; was crucified, died, buried, and rose up.  Then He goes an outrageous step further and says to us, "These things that I have done, you can do also, and even greater things."  Definitely, He was not your average person
  • What must it be like to live within and from the power and Presence of God?
  • Take the risk of the visionary and in outrageous contentment live that life.
God Bless you.
 
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To read the complete text of "Spiritual People" from Sunday, November 11, 2012,  click here.

Monday, October 15, 2012

The Kidney Stone

For those who were at service on Sunday, September 16, 2012, a few bullet points to jog your memory:



·        I was in the hospital for a kidney stone
·        Kidney stones are small (mine was about 1.5 mm, the width of a penny)
·        How can something so small have such a big impact?
·        A small thing such as a misplaced, thoughtless, or unkind word directed at another (or ourselves) can be the catalyst for suffering and pain 
·        Jesus counsels us in Matthew 17:20 that if we have faith the size of a mustard seed (or a kidney stone?) we can move mountains
·        Even a small dedication to spiritual principles will have a big impact on your life
·        Attending to “the small things” with spiritual principles (before they turn into unnecessary mountains) will have a big impact on your life
·        How do we do this?
·        “Step back and let God lead the way” (listen to our inner guidance… let divine wisdom sit on the seat of authority)
·        This can be difficult because we have been trained to be in control of our lives.  If we want something, we are told to go out there and make it happen
·        There is a light in you, in everyone; the Light of God… and the universe and all that it contains is longing to behold your release of this Light.  The entire universe and all it contains is waiting to join with you in the Light of God.  As you step back, the Light in you steps forward and encompasses the world in happy union.
·        You are the Light of the world, and that is no small thing!
·        “Step back” and let the Light of God shine in every little thing you do

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To read the complete text of "The Kidney Stone" from Sunday, October 14, 2012,  click here.

Saturday, September 29, 2012

Church Picnic tomorrow!

Service and pitch-in picnic at Mounds Park in the pavilion. Service at 11:00 a.m. and picnic to follow.

Bring a friend, bring your musical instruments, bring a game to play, and/or bring a dish to share!

Monday, September 24, 2012

Seeing God in the Mundane (plus a Q&A session)

For those who were at service on Sunday, September 23, 2012, a few comments to jog your memory:


Just as Robert Frost took the path less traveled, we trod off the beaten path yesterday.  Our service had two parts: some comments from me and then a question and answer period in which the congregation had an opportunity to ask “spiritually based” questions.

In part one of the service we trod the unbeaten path with my asking, “Can you see a reflection of God in the mundane; in the inanimate?”

One of the examples I gave of seeing the inanimate in a “God-reflecting” light was my eyeglasses.

I can see myself as having a vision problem that needs to be fixed… which is what my corrective lenses will do.  In this perspective I hold there is a problem.  I believe the subconscious message with, “I have a problem” is that there is something wrong with me.  That’s not a message I want my subconscious to be entertaining.

Alternately I can ask myself, “How do eyeglasses reflect God?”  The answer for me is, “Where vision is limited, applying God will bring things into focus.”  This is a dramatically different message for the subconscious.  First of all, there is no hidden message that I have a problem… that something is wrong with me.  Instead there is a “God-cognizant” awareness present… that adding God in my life brings clarity and sharpness of vision.

Perhaps you’d like to give it a try yourself?  How can you see the inanimate as reflecting God?  The power of an exercise like this is that we begin to expand our awareness of the presence of God; we begin to recognize that we can, in everything, find a connection to (or reminder of) God.



In part two of the service I entertained questions.  Here are two questions, and answers in summary form.



Question: “I struggle reconciling the idea that God is omnipotent and lets suffering continue without stopping it.”

Answer (as I see it): When we anthropomorphize God we tend to see things backwards.  The idea that we are made in the image and after the likeness of God becomes interpreted as, “God has human characteristics,” rather than as, “I am spirit, whole, complete, and eternal”
When we attribute human characteristics to God we then believe that God analyses behavior as good or bad, right or wrong according to “His” perspective; punishes what is “wrong” and rewards what is “right.”

At the same time we attribute God as being love and as being all powerful, and we don’t understand why an all powerful, all loving God would allow man’s inhumanity to man.

The very question of why God allows this is a statement that we are victims of the whim of God.  This, again, is a human based perspective… seeing God from a societal standpoint: when we don’t follow the rules the Judge will punish us, and the Judge also has the power to order people stop what they are doing.  Except in this case God, because God is all powerful, God can make people stop act in an unloving way.

The answer lies in a shift in awareness.  If we are made in the image and after the likeness of God, and God is Love, and if God (Love) is all powerful then we possess the power of Love, too.

Here, then is my answer, in short: The power of Love, when applied according to its nature heals and harmonizes.  The power of love withheld, which we call fear (aka: attack) results man’s inhumanity to man.

The application of the resolution of man’s inhumanity to man lies in the hands of man, not God.  The resolving power comes from God, not man.

Question: I have a hard time seeing the point of view of “the other side” in the politics of the upcoming election.  Sometimes I can’t even stand to listen to them.  What should I do?

Answer (as I see it): Vote and forgive… forgive being the operative word.  Charles Fillmore defined forgiveness as, “A process of giving up the false for the true.” 

Once again, this is a spiritually based answer, not a worldly based answer of good and bad, right and wrong.

We are all trying to find inner peace in a world of constant disrupt and we have varying ideas of how to go about this.

My best suggestion in relation to anything that upsets us is to forgive. Look beyond the false to the true in this case means extend forgiveness to your ideas about right and wrong, good and bad.  That way you are forgiving yourself for your judgments against_______, because it’s our judgments that make us uncomfortable, not the perspectives of others.
 

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Peace is Personal

For those who were at service on Sunday, September 16, 2012, a few bullet points to jog your memory:


  • This past week US embassies were attacked and four American citizens were killed.
  • The general reaction of the talking heads on TV news programs was that we must kill in return.
  • What was your reaction to the news: anger, hate, sick to your stomach, anxious, fear? 
  • “In our world, certainly, it is much easier to hate people and feel justified in this hatred, than it is to truly love someone.  This is not the love that specialness holds dear, but the love that does not see another as separate from ourselves; not seeing another person’s interest as separate, or more or less important than our own.” Ken Wapnick, The Obstacles to Peace. (Pgs 190-191)
  • I believe everyone's interest are the same: internal peace
  • My personal reaction to these events after watching TV new shows for a couple of hours was deep anxiety
  • I had to ask myself if this was the emotion I wanted to experience.  "No, I choose Love, because I believe in the power of love to bring peace to my heart.”
  • Matthew 5:37-48 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect [consistent], therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect [consistent]."
  • There is value in our giving attention to that which we choose to experience.  “Where love is, there God is also. Man's nature is not essentially evil. Brute nature has been known to yield to the influence of love.” (Gandhi)
  • “What you want also wants you. If you seek the celestial, the celestial also seeks you. There are no unanswered requests in the universe.” (Vernon Howard)
  • I trust in the power of love to bring peace to my heart.  In doing so on an ongoing basis there is more peace in the world. 
  • When you work to bring peace to your heart on an ongoing basis, there is more peace in the world.
  • Peace is not won through religious or governmental domination. 
  • There will never be a peaceful government in the world until we are governed by peace in our hearts and minds.  Let’s keep our “eyes” focused on the “Hilltop of Peace.” 
  • Peace is possible because peace is personal.
  • We can do this… we can do this.

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To read the complete text of "Peace is Personal" from Sunday, September 16, 2012,  click here.

Monday, September 10, 2012

The Gospel of Thomas #76, "The Pearl"

For those who were at service on Sunday, September 9, 2012, a few bullet points to jog your memory:

  •   Just as a drink of water bring vitality to the body, drinking in God brings the awareness of vitality that is already in our being 
  •   There is purported to be buried treasure on Oak Island, off the coast of Halifax, Nova Scotia. Men have been seeking to find this treasure for over 200 years.
  •   Real treasure is the awareness of God that is "found within" (actually, remembered rather than found)
  •  Saying #76 from the Gospel of Thomas: Jesus said, "God's Divine Rule is like a merchant who had a supply of merchandise and then found a pearl.  That merchant was prudent; he sold the merchandise and bought the single pearl for himself. So also with you, seek the treasure that is unfailing, that is enduring, where no moth comes to eat and no worm destroys.”
  •   Generally when we want to change our awareness is focused on what we "lack."
  •   We will never obtain something if our main focus is on the lack of it.
  •   The sure way to do something for your future is to do something with your present.
  •   Saying #76 suggests we must "sell" (divest ourselves of) our "Merchandise" in order to obtain (possess, have the experience of) the one great pearl , which I define - as one of a number of ways to define it - as inner peace.
  •   Inner peace is our most valuable possession.
  •   Like "The Traveler" in the story I read, let no one discourage you from continuing on your path.  Take no ones word for anything about the experience of traveling the path to inner peace. Find out for yourself!
  •    Give all your troubles, thoughts, cares, and concerns to God for God to heal.  Do this as often as they appear for you (Also known as, "Keep selling your merchandise"),
  •   and keep drinking in God, this will lead you to the one great pearl!
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To read the complete text of "The Gospel of Thomas #76, "The Pearl"" from Sunday, September 9, 2012,  click here.

Monday, September 3, 2012

Perspective

For those who were at service on Sunday, a few bullet points to jog your memory (actually these are nearly all my notes, with an added surprise at the end):

•    Everything I see has all the meaning I give to it.
•    Mrs. Goldberg and Mrs. Weinstein are visiting with each other
•    “How’s Marvin?” Mrs. Weinstein asks?
o    "His wife is a leech." says Mrs. Goldberg.
o    "She Just sits around all day,
o    Has a maid to do cooking and cleaning,
o   he's going broke buying her expensive gifts
o    Sleeps late every morning
o    Brings her breakfast in bed."
•    “That’s terrible… a blessing she isn’t!” they agree
•    “Enough about Marvin, already, how’s your dear, sweet, Abigail?”
o    "Abby's a lucky girl. says Mrs Goldberg.
o    "She married a man who treats her like a princess,
o    Buys her anything she wants
o    Hires people to take care of the house
o    She doesn’t have to dirty a finger.
o    Every morning she brings him breakfast in bed."
•    Both women concurred, “Isn’t that wonderful?”
•    Everything you see has all the meaning you give to it

•    Let’s have a lithe fun with perception
•    Do you see an old woman or a young woman (or both)?

•    Do you see a frog or a horse (or both)?

•    Our perception is suspect
•    We see with our minds, not with our eyes
•    Sight = thinking

•    Grandpa Smith lives in Wisconsin
o    He invites his grandchildren to spend the summer with him
o    Every morning they would slip into his bedroom and watch him sleep
o    One morning they decided to put Limburger cheese on his mustache
o    He woke up in a few minutes, “Something smells bad.”
o    Put on robe, walked around bedroom, “It's bedroom smells bad”
o    Out the door, down the hallway, “It's the hallway smells bad”
o    Down the stairs and through the house, “It's the living room that smells bad... it's the dining room that smells bad... it's the kitchen that smells bad”
o    Outside, he says “The whole world smells!”
•    Isn’t that the way it is?  We think IT is not in us; It is out there in the world

The "it" that I think is out there causing my experience is actually me!

•    Sight = thinking
•    (Mark 9:47) “And if your eye offends you, remove it..."
o    If your perception offends your sensibilities, change your thinking.
•    Remove the old way of thinking and begin thinking with
•    The Mind that created us


•    Poem from James Allen's book. "As I Thinketh"
Mind is the Master power that molds and makes,
And Man is Mind, and evermore he takes
The tool of Thought, and, shaping what he wills,
Brings forth a thousand joys, a thousand ills:--
He thinks in secret, and it comes to pass:
Environment is but his looking-glass.

•    As long as we have the ability to choose how we experience events, why not choose to see through the eyes of Love... to see as God see?"






Here's a song you might enjoy (this was not part of the service): I Choose Love

Monday, August 27, 2012

To Change, Move From Concept to Experience

For those who were at service on Sunday, a few bullet points to jog your memory:


1.     What kinds of negative things do you say to yourself about yourself – take a moment and identify one or two. :0)
2.     What would your reaction be if you were sitting at one of the tables in Fellowship Hall and someone said to you, “You know what your problem is? You’re _________________.” Why is it OK for us to emotionally abuse ourselves?
3.     Why do we continue to go to negativity?
4.     Two possible reasons: (1) Its familiar, and
5.     (2) “Because [we] know basic truth as a quote but not as a personal experience.” (Vernon Howard, Secrets for Higher Success, page 149)
6.     Is what you purport to know based upon your genuine experience or is it a concept that you have held so closely, quoted over and over again, that it now passes as experience?
7.     Map and territory perspective. A map (quote) gives us a representation of something.  Walking the territory (application of the concept) gives us an intimate experience of what the map points to.
8.     Understand life through realizing that dropping the ways you’ve done things before will bring you a different experience. If you want to have a different experience, you’re going to have to want to be different. Avoidance is maintenance.  The work must be personal to us.
9.     Jim talked a few weeks ago about changing and he suggested that if you want to have a new experience you will have to change your friends from the ones who want to “keep you where you are” to those who will invite you to a higher place in awareness and self- realization.  You’re also going to have to stop hanging around the same thoughts of negativity.
10.   “With God, all things are possible.” (MT 19:26)
11.     You are an obstacle dissolver!

Bless everything,
Rev. Brad

Monday, August 20, 2012

Shake It Off and Step Up

For those who were at service on Sunday, a few bullet points to jog your memory:
  •  People generally have the habit of engaging in negative self-talk when they realize we’ve been unconscious 
  • Saying, "Thank you, God" when you awaken from unconsciousness is a simple way to break the negative habit. Getting negative is a way of keeping old memories alive.
  • Future Memory - what do we want our memories to be in the future? The way we deal with our experience of life now will be our memory in the future.
  • "The farther we are from an act the more we are likely to be dishonest." (Dan Ariely in The (Honest) Truth about Dishonesty)
  • The farther we get from consciously connecting with God the more likely we are to be dishonest about our true nature.
  • When life throws dirt on your back, shake it off and step up (like the mule does in the ancient proverb)
  • Instruction from my Inner Guidance which I define as the Holy Spirit:   “Trust is the main requirement in finding a happier, more peaceful life.  Trust in Me. Trust in the power and Presence of Me.  Why do you doubt what you have not yet fully tried? What difference would it make if you were wrong? Would it be anything more than a temporary departure from what already isn’t working or is working minimally?  “Try Me, you’ll like Me.”  Now go and have fun in life.  Bring good cheer with you in whatever you do.  I love you.”
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To read the complete text of "Shake It Off and Step Up" from Sunday, August 19, 2012,  click here.

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Look Above The Bar


Norman Vincent Peale tells a story about a pole vaulter who only had to make a vault he’d made before in order to be awarded a college scholarship. The young man lost his confidence and told his coach, “It’s too high. I can’t do it.”

The coach responded, “I want you to throw your heart above the bar. In you imagination and in your eyesight, see only things above the bar.”

So often we look at the “bars” we have to vault over in life and we say to ourselves, “It’s too high. I can’t do it”

We are not alone. God is with us always.  We can remind ourselves if this by using one of these affirmations when we face struggle in our life:
·         God is the strength on which I depend (Lesson 47, A Course in Miracles)
·         I can do all things, through God who strengthens me (Phil 4:13)

If we wish to keep up comfortable place in mind, and have a peaceful soul, we must distance ourselves, at least somewhat, from negative distractions around us.

But distancing our self isn't always easy, especially when so many negatives are struggling to get our attention, and our participation.

Each week we close our service by reciting The Prayer for Protection and we affirm, “Wherever I am, God is, and all is well.”
What this prayer is affirming is that we are not alone.

We are not alone – God is with us always (all ways)

We all have this habit – when we realize we’ve been unconscious we get upset with/at ourselves… isn’t that accepting the call to participate in negativity?

When you have a spiritual realization, what do you do, get upset or be grateful? 

Realizing that you’ve been unconscious is reason for rejoicing because now you’re conscious again!

Would you be willing to focus your attention “above the bar?”  Would you be willing, for the next 24 hours, to deliberately speak in positive terms about everything in your life? Would you be willing to speak, positively, about your job, your health, your relationships, your marriage, and your future?

Would you be willing to GO OUT OF YOUR WAY to speak, optimistically, about everything? The pessimistic way doesn’t work—it NEVER did. Look for the positive in everything… talk positively.

Enjoy this video: http://www.values.com/inspirational-stories-tv-spots/99-The-Greatest

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To read the complete text of "Look Above The Bar" from Sunday, August 12,  click here.

Monday, August 6, 2012

Catching Up After Vacation, Part 2

I've been on vacation for two weeks and I'd like to thank C.Dee Coy, RScP for filling in for me on August 5, 2012

     (Dee Coy, a native Hoosier, is a Religious Science Practitioner and senior ministerial student at Denver campus of Holmes Institute of Consciousness Studies. Dee is currently serving as ministerial intern at the Center for Spiritual Living of Greater Cincinnati.)

Synopsis of Dee's message:

Heaven is used to describe the sky above us, the celestial realm of stars and constellations above that, and the realm of pure spirit where living beings reside after death. The master teacher gave us another description which he repeated many times in many ways throughout his teachings.  The kingdom of heaven is within and at-hand and we are to seek it first.  In doing so, all other things are added unto us.   

We all have a concept of heavenly reality and we all would like to see that reality reflected here on earth.  We do so by applying the law of cause and effect, concentrating our attention on realizing the heaven within that awaits us and allowing that realization to shift all other thoughts and actions in accordance with it.  We must give up nothing but the notion that “we” do the work.

The full text of Dee's message can be read here.

Catching Up After Vacation, Part 1

I've been on vacation for two weeks and I'd like to thank Jim Tallman for filling in for me on July 29, 2012

Synopsis of Jim's message:

Living a more spiritual life is aided by surrounding yourself with positive people.  He who walks with the wise grows wise. (Proverbs 13:4)

Limit negative self talk.  Negative self talk can be transformed through the use of denials and affirmations.

Be around people that:
* Support you 
* Celebrate your success 
* Encourage you when things "appear" to be going bad.  
As you grow in spiritual strength become that kind of friend to others, asking yourself "would I want me for a friend."
Bad company corrupts good people. (I Corinthians: 15:33)



Monday, July 23, 2012

Aurora Movie Shootings - A Conversation

Yesterday, Sunday, July 22nd, I didn't deliver a prepared service.  Instead I asked the congregation if the needed to process their feelings around the armed assault at the Century 16 Theater in Aurora, Colorado.

Here are a few points from our conversation, in no order or particular context:
  • Pray for the deceased and for the injured
  • Pray also for the perpetrator… "wouldn’t his mother like us to pray for him, too?"
  • See beyond the actions and look for something spiritual (this doesn’t absolve him from the worldly/judicial consequences of his actions)
  • Identify him as spirit, not as his actions (not: he’s an idiot, jerk, evil, etc., but: he is a child of God, unaware of his divinity and acting-out like an idiot, jerk, in an evil way, etc.)
  • Our spiritual identity is always there.  We may cover it up, reject it, and deny it, but it’s always there
  • Attempt to see those who died (and those who were injured) as being spiritually alive
  • Feel your feelings
  • Practice forgiveness
  • Reach out others (the lonely, struggling, depressed, disenfranchised, etc. )
  • Remember John 13:34, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."

Bless everything,
Rev. Brad

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Your Path...


Which way is the right way?
All of humanity is seeking the peace of God.  Everyone might not say it that way but I believe it to be true.  Every one of us does what we do in order to maintain, attract, or establish unwavering inner peace.
The world has numerous religions, and sects within each of those religions.  Which is the ‘right religion’, the ‘right sect’, or the ‘right way’ to the awareness of our connection to perennial joy?  I don’t have an answer for you because I am not the last word for you on your life, you are.  Equally true then is the realization that you are not the last word for another on their life, they are.
Each of us chooses our own path, our own way; some under the umbrella of an organized teaching, some with a personally developed spirituality all their own, and others with a strictly worldly perspective.
I believe that God loves all ‘His’ children equally and is simply ‘happy’ that we come home.  This point is made clearly in the story of “The Prodigal Son.”  The father cared neither where his son had been, nor what he had been doing; he was just happy he returned home.
Return ‘home’ via the path that calls out to you most deeply.  Begrudge no one the path they choose to travel even if they criticize yours; and if you feel attacked for your beliefs keep in mind (for yourself) Jesus’ counsel in John 15:12, “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.”

Traveling with you on the path,

Rev. Brad

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To read the complete text of "Your Path..." from Sunday, July 15,  click here.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Overcoming a Lack of Love

For those who were at service on Sunday, a few bullet points to jog your memory:

  • "Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewal of your mind." Romans 12:2
  • Renewing your mind switches you from worldly vision and identification to spiritual vision and identification
  • Kare Castle tells of being a young single mother and how she thought being married would erase her shame
  • Once married, her husband became her perceived redeemer and she was unwilling to let go of that
  • Kare's husband had a serious addiction problem
  • After years and years of broken promises about getting well, and Kare's denial that her husband was seriously addicted, she started attending church to find spiritual peace
  • Kare began a intentional, regular, spiritual practice
  • Her church offered a class bases on Maria Nemeth's book, The Energy of Money
  • The underlying philosophy of that book is, the way we handle money is the way we handle life.
  • Kare recognized, "I have handled money completely unconsciously and that is exactly how I have been living my life - unconsciously." 
  • In a moment of complete surrender she said a prayer that changed her life; "Dear God, please wake me up."
  • The next morning she found her husband lying in a pool of his own excrement, unconscious from a drug overdose
  • Three days later as she was at the hospital listening to her husband's apologies and confession of his horrifying behavior related to sex addition, the Voice for God beame progressively louder, overpowering all other sounds in the room
  • The Voice said to her, "All is well. Your peace and safety lie in your relationship with me."
  • Kare said she believed the Holy Spirit spoke through her when she responded to her husband, saying, "You have done some terrible things, but I know the truth of who you are. You are a child of God and for that reason I forgive you."
  • In that moment of intense clarity for Kare, she made the choice for the experience and the expression of love through forgiveness
  • When you surender, when you step back and let God lead the way you will become a happier, more peaceful, incredible you!
  • Let love radiate into all the opportunities that come to you from both your inside world and what we think of as the outside world.
  • What better life than one that is filled with God's Love?
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To read the complete text of "Overcoming a Lack of Love" from Sunday, July 8th, click here.

Monday, July 2, 2012

Either Way...

For those who were at service on Sunday, a few bullet points to jog your memory:


  • Philippians 4:8 “Finally, beloved, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”
  • Proverbs 3:1-5 “My child, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments; for length of days and years of life and abundant welfare they will give you. Do not let loyalty and faithfulness forsake (abandon, desert, leave) you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart…  Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight.”
  • The tapestry of our life is woven by every decision we make
  • The experience borne out of our decisions is affected by our attitude
  • "We have a stolen car and we can be upset about it, or, we have a stolen car and we can be OK about it.  Either way, we have a stolen car and I choose to be OK about it"
  • “A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.” (Hugh Downs)
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For those who would like to read the entire text:



"I’d like to offer you two pieces of Scripture:

Philippians 4:8 “Finally, beloved, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”

Proverbs 3:1-5 “My child, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments; for length of days and years of life and abundant welfare they will give you. Do not let loyalty and faithfulness forsake (abandon, desert, leave) you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart…  Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight.”

There is a thought-provoking scene in Lewis Carroll’s classic children’s tale, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland. Young Alice comes to a fork in the road and asks the Cheshire Cat which direction she should take. “‘That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,’ said the Cat.

"I don’t much care where –" said Alice.

“Then it doesn’t matter which way you walk," said the Cat.”

Life is filled with decisions, many of which never even reach our conscious level. In which cup from the cupboard will I have my coffee or tea? Should I tuck my t-shirt in or leave it out? Which side of the couch should I plop down on when I’m going to watch TV? Most of these decisions are made out of habit.

On the other hand, there are some decisions that you spend time thinking about. What sounds good for lunch? Which voicemail needs to be answered first? Can the haircut wait until next week? These decisions may seem small and insignificant, but woven together, they form the tapestry of our daily lives.

Then there are life-altering decisions with which we may well struggle: Which career path is most in line with my unique skill-set and calling? Should I marry or remain single? Which church will allow me the best opportunity to grow and minister to others? These are often hard choices that deserve a great amount of thought.

Regardless of which of these "decision sets" you are in… there is yet another decision to make… a decision that surrounds and clothes all others; you have to decide what your attitude will be about what’s going on in your life.

Here’s a story, Attitude – One of Life’s Choices, from A Second Helping of Chicken Soup for the Soul, (P/185-187) story by Bob Harris.
  • (synopsis for readers of this blog- Bob and his wife Tere return home to California from a trip (in their brand new car) to visit family in Houston, Texas. They are so tired from driving straight through that they don’t unpack their car when they return home.  In the morning they awaken to find their new car and its contents have been stolen.  Not only have they lost their car but all their luggage, clothing, cameras, wedding album, family heirlooms they brought home with them, Bob’s wallet, and both their checkbooks.

    Their car is found five days later.  In the interim, though, Tere becomes more and more distressed while Bob remains calm.  Tere asks Bob why he is not upset.  Bob replies, “We have a stolen car and we can be upset or we have a stolen car and we can be happy.  Either way, we have a stolen car and I choose to be happy.”

    There is more to the story and an amusing twist at the end but Bob’s reply is the point of telling the story)

Last week I suggested that all we need is one move and to use that move in the face of trials, tribulations, troubles and tests.

You know that I often have the opportunity to apply the teachings we share (aka – practice what I preach) in the week following any given lesson.  This past week has been a great opportunity... or, actually, plural. There have been a number of opportunities to practice principle and to choose my attitude.
  • Wednesday: Accident in new truck
I have a dented up new truck and I could be upset, or I have a dented up my new truck and I can be happy.  Either way… I have a dented up new truck and my attitude is a matter of choice.

  • Thursday: ran over and killed a cat
I ran over someone’s pet and I could be all upset, or I have a run over someone’s pet and I can be OK with it (accepting it and not spiraling down deeply into pain and suffering).  Either way… the cat is dead… and my attitude is a matter of choice. (I can extend love to the deceased cat and its owners and still feel the sting of running over the cat, but I choose not to let it push me into a funk)

It’s so important to be in the best attitude possible when we make decisions.  Our attitude affects our decisions (not the reverse).  Our attitude affects our:
  • health
  • happiness
  • whether we feel like a victim or see an opportunity for spiritual expression/growth
  • view of the world
  • perspective on whether or not we can handle such and such (or not)
  • how we feel about ourselves (see our value)
  • whether we project, bury, or offer our feelings for transformation

“Let your heart keep my commandments; for length of days and years of life and abundant welfare they will give you.”

Lastly, if the bible writer of Proverbs isn’t compelling enough, then let’s go to Hugh Downs (TV newsman, host of the Today show and the game show, Concentration) for our final word this morning, “A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.”"

Bless everything,
Rev. Brad

Monday, June 25, 2012

"Your One Move"

(complete text today, not a recap)
"I thought I’d bring my tool box in today.  It’s filled with wrenches... box and open end.; sockets and drivers; monkey wrench; screwdrivers, multi-meter, etc.
It weighs 46 lbs (now I know why these are called wrenches… carry this long enough and you’ll wrench your back!)
That’s a lot of stuff to lug around for mechanical emergencies.
To be able to present a lesson each week a minister has to always be on the lookout for ways to make a point.  We use a number of resources: our own lives, we share with and get help from other ministers; there is the news, observation of life going on around us and of course, from our reading.
This is a story that came to me two weeks ago.  It was told to me by Jim Lee.  Jim is a Unity minister in Detroit and he said he read this story and that is purported to be true.  Thank you, Jim, for your inspiration
It’s the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.
The boy began lessons with an old Japanese judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn't understand why, after three months of training the master had taught him only one move.
"Sensei," the boy finally said, "Shouldn't I be learning more moves?"
"This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you'll ever need to know," the sensei replied.
Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training.
Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.
This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the sensei intervened.
"No," the sensei insisted, "Let him continue."
Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion.
On the way home, the boy and sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind.
"Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?"
"You won for two reasons," the sensei answered. "First, you've almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm."
            Our lives can be challenging.  We can feel held back; defeated, like we can’t compete… we have trouble, trials, tribulations and tests.
            When it comes to the little things we depend on ourselves and we say, “I’ve got it… no problem… I’ve got it.”
            Have you ever experienced the grace of God?  That time when things miraculously went your way?  That’s God saying, “I’ve got it.”
            Y’know what?  God has it all the time. 
            Heb 13:5 “I will not forsake you or leave you”
            1 Cor 10:13 "There has no temptation come your way that is not common to all mankind, but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond your strength, but will, when you are tempted, also make a way to escape, that you may be able to bear it."
It’s never a matter of, “I’ve got it” on our end.  God has it, and we experience it… when we go to God to be our partner in life… and we do that with our one move.
            Mine is forgiveness.
            Forgiveness offers me all I want:
·         Peace
·         Happiness
Forgiveness offers me that.
I also want a surety that I can get though each day and forgiveness offers me that.
Forgiveness is my one move and I use it all the time.  When I use forgiveness it seems as though things go my way, but I don’t use forgiveness to get a result (tho’ I’ve tried) because that doesn’t work.
I used to notice how things worked out on a physical level but now I see how forgiveness really work on an inner level and I experience peace… and thus it appears as though what has manifest in my world is a result of forgiveness, but what has really happened is I am at peace and when I am at peace what appears in my world is perceived as “good, right, perfect.”
When we are at peace, all is right with our relationship with the world.
Forgiveness is how I put my faith in God.  Once you put your faith in God you are able to lift yourself out of a historical lie of the past, and present yourself to a new way of being.
The only thing you need is one move, and that one move will take you to God.  One move… not a heavy tool box full of this or that… but one move.
Yes, there are trials and tribulations: lost jobs, lost relationships, lost homes, and lost loved ones.
In all of this, God will not forsake you… something magnificent is open and available to you all the time!  And all we have to do is make that one move to God and God will open magnificence to us that we never new existed before.
Our life is not occurring someplace outside ourselves, our life is occurring in God and when Troubles, trial, and tribulation appear… go to God with your one move.  God’s got this… God’s got this… G o d’ s    g o t    t h i s."

Bless everything,
Rev. Brad